If we always feel cheated in a relationship this is a must read…

In a relationship, married or not… You should read this.
Marriage.

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed – dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.

If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.”

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1,427 thoughts on “If we always feel cheated in a relationship this is a must read…

  1. ITS VERY HARD TO ADMIT DAT I HAD SUCH THINKING IN MIND! GOD BLESS D WRITER OF DIS STORY, HE HAS JUST SAVED A GENERATION LOST! DAT WAS ABOUT TO TAKE PLACE IN MY FAMILY NOW! PLS PEOPLE APPRICAITE WAT U HAVE BEFORE U SAY AM SORRY IN UR GRAVE.

  2. D consequences of divorce ‘re enuf 2 make one mad at those who request it……u better appreciate what u have b4 it becums what u once had……

  3. God bless d memory of d writer. If pple would consider d conseqz of divorce they would rather stick to the wife of their youth.

  4. Wow…it has riry touched ma hrt n 4 sure am short of words…al always d the little things 2 mek him hapi 2 the end of tym.

  5. This is very sad and has really touched me. i could not help but cry. marriages are not mere contractual agreements but an embodiment of body and soul. God knew through His word by saying that when people marry, no one should put the marriage asunder. All u guys who have had a chance to read this episode should always take care of your spouses. take care of each other for you are complements. share this with friends to save more marriages.

  6. Good lesson to GUYS who don’t know how appreciate them breasted creatures. Hey pple we must treat them with care and high level of respect these weak vessels. Ciao.

  7. It realy touched me. I cried the whole time I was reading it and I read it the second time just to make sure I didnt miss anything….

  8. Our desire aspiration should be that, as many people as we meet; let’s leave them better than we met them 4 dat’s fulfilment.

  9. Thank God u realize ur mistakes on time,may her soul rest in the bossom of the Lord, nd may God also 4give u coz u caused her death had it been u re there 4 her i believe 2gether both of u will find solution to her problem nd again u invite the death by raising d topic of divorce.well i cant blame u again she’s is dead already. But ask God for mercy.

  10. Very sad & touching! They said “if you have something luxurious, u don’t see how worth it is until u loose it” but I say “we keep on destroying beautiful luxurious things by desire ring what we will never have or afford, instead of appreciated what we are destroying”!

  11. Waooh! Dis has really created an impact in my life,one thing i know 4 sure is dat Money isn’t everything,Material isn’t everythn,it can’t buy u happiness,My love life would av bin beta if we realise dat dere is a limit 2 money n material things.I pray we should all learn 4rm dis n make a change in our r/ships,try n make it more Favourable 2 both parties.

  12. This reminds me when i made a commitment to my Lord after baptism , that i will b by Him every single day of my life…but how many tyms hv i walked alone? how many tyms hav i wondered away? how many tyms hv i despised His still voice?
    If that is the pain i have often caused my Lord, then i have no reason not remember that commitment n turn back to Him. Dear friends, i want divorse Satan today. would you mind joining me?

  13. a touching story, GODhelp us and d man in question bcos he will never forgive himself, i can be d other way round

  14. Hmm……. I wish our men will all learn 4rm dis pathetic story, love n care 4 their women, pls dnt kless about ur woman, try n knw her pains n learn 2 luv her d way she is. Hold ur women v close 2 ur self.

  15. Waw! Dat ws reali touching. I wish our men will learn 4rm dis, n value wat they have at hand, love their women n hold them close to their arms always. Dnt careless about ur woman no mata wat happens.

  16. Waw! Dat ws reali touching. I wish our men will learn 4rm dis, n value wat they have at hand, love their women n hold them close to their arms always.

  17. Wow am so moved wth tht story, it hs realy left me speachles. Bt Awesome. Smtyms we r Buzy wth othr ppl n stuf tht we fail 2 c thngs jst lyk the huseband.

  18. The man didnt notice d wife on tym simply becos he was too far away.anyway i neva pray for such man in ma lyf………………..do u fall a victim???

  19. Am jst dumbfounded cos the story is too touching nd heartbreaking! While we’re busy chasing shadows d main image walks away 4rm us. U will neva miss ur water untill ur river gets dry!

  20. Drama sound funny but powerful and enrich so much such that if one happen to discover what is lacking in their relationship he/she should apply it that keep relationship going and strong. More importantly faithfulness to one another is the key to strong relationship.
    It was just because of unfaithfulness that pushes you in almost divorcing your loving and caring wife.

  21. Human being are subjected 2 changes but it is better-off 2 allow our conscience 2 guide us when taking steps & 2 recall those steps fast when necessary.

  22. It 2 2 shockin story, wel i pray may God 4give d husband 4 wat he has done 2 d wife and d little son of thires .Men learn lesson 4 dat story!!!!

  23. I’m really touched with this story. May God bless the one who pasted it. I’m even short of words.

  24. No matter d hurt from people,let’s continue 2share love.Life is notn,we came naked nd naked we wil go.Let’s don’t pursue thns at d expense of someone’s joy-just lyk somegirls don’t care if their felow girl is hurt .They persist,al in a bid 2get d husband

  25. Life touchng story, true luv matters a lot, intimacy wth one another, knowng each others want, playng as friends, gist nd spend quality tme 2gether..

  26. this is a very difficult subject since I m not married yet and looking forward to get married one day ,I agree to all the letter said ,and my input to this is before you marry ,know at some basic about marriage and the importance of marriage lastly lest stop marrying each other just because material circumstances allows us ,but lets marry because we truly love each other , I’m saying this because to confessed I have been sleeping with somebody s,wife ,our defense is we are so lonely .now I understand ,the importance of intimacy in any relationship.

  27. Every man that multreat a woman is cutting his life short and hinders his blessings from God , men we need to b careful b,cos women brot us to this earth

  28. So inspirational nd touching,for spouses,lets always give our spouse shoulder to lean on nd lets alway b there for each other til death calls.

  29. So inspirational nd touching,4 spouse,let always give our spouse shoulder to lean on nd lets alway b there for each other til death calls.

  30. Too bad… Men dnt what pity4 cuz thy are 2 heartless! Thy are wickedly wicked ….wen I went true it I’was almost faintin I’was diein Cuz am goin true d same shit2 after yrs of painz just 2week ago my guy brought a strange woman&my yrs of ,wonderful,happies relationsh crumbled on easter break till date still livin n shockd&painz…Most time I wonderd Cuz GOD watches all dis&nt sayin any thin does it mean s happi with this Evil men does???? Wonderin ooooooooooo

  31. The morale of the story carries a lot of wait and we need to balance the scales in our marriages, some spouses dont even know their fathers names and never even heard their voices, some forget to say thank you, some dont recognise nor support their partners……but amazingly these too claim to love each other….

  32. I felt like giving up on my relationship b4 reading this but now I want 2 give it a try until we get it rite i love my man.

  33. Argh!!,.. screWwww,. da senTimenTs ma’an,.. this thnGs hapn oL da tym,.. jst gTTa piQ ursLf up n mOv oN,…

    Life is Gracious,..
    Love is in tha aIr,….
    Tru Love nevahh faDes,…..

    Life Goez oN,………. :)

  34. This really touch my heart, just like our saviour Jesus who laid down his life to save the world. Intimacy in any relationship is essential. Our relationship with God is upper most.
    God in your mercy pls save and protect my marriage.

  35. This really touch my heart, just like our saviour Jesus who laid down his life to save the world. Intimacy in any relationship is essential. Our relationship with God is upper most.
    God in your mercy pls save and protect my marriage
    I’ll like more of this.

  36. I feel sorry for women ; they are always going thru a lot b’cos of luv .I wish all man ‘n Janes learn what a destruction r they causing to lives of wives ‘n kids.they must really repent from their Infidelity.its satanic

  37. Is for some of these reason, that is why i define all love relationship(marriage or not) as, a contract signed or agreeded upon by two partner,in which one is required to comply,commite,contribute and show concern for the progression and sustainability of it, irrespective of the boundaries of each other. I love the lesson in there,Its amazing.
    Love is sharing, caring, conforting,respecting, passion,affection,best treatment,attraction,communication and making best decisions.
    thax Dr

  38. I will always strive to make you a happy wife, thats a very encouraging and educative lesson. Lyk i sed on ma friday post, “tolerance”, Keep them cmng achihera.

  39. marriage is beautiful.. But its so painful that some mistake it for an ordinary relationship. In other to have a good marriage u must trow de line of communication open.

  40. Smtyms we turn our passion out while hope almst ther.bt without notice we c evrytin sim wel wen we give up tins we almst love.

  41. With tears rolling down my eye…I felt sorry for the love that is trying to be rebuild. I wish that this circulate to many family.

  42. that story was so thought provoking, love could be so funny . the more you think you can let go , the more it gets hold of you . love is powerful, if you try to nurture it , splendid story, i really learnt a whole lot

  43. It is sad,coz dis is happening in most of people lives,when r we going to learn to truly love,value nd respect our partners.

  44. One of the legal act that God dislike is divorce.I urge the two spouses to be tolerance so that their relationship would last.

  45. A sad sorry, sometime we don’t know What is happening 2 we d men. As i was reading i look at my wife nd say in my mind No woman can come between us.

  46. Its so painful it really touches me. We hav to love each other nd use th tym we hav seriously nt prertendin to love someone

  47. Life has so many things in it and people do not no the values of wat they hav till they loose.its nt all about having the best bt making out the best from wat u hav.such is life.

  48. Wow heart touching story. The wise will learn from this.hopefully waiting for a spouse some day and GOD will give me the best of all in
    jesus name amen………….

  49. Wat an interesting bt touching story, lovers need 2 treat deir love ones speacially and valve wat dey hv b4 dey miss dem.

  50. loving someone is hard, but u love them anyway. . . u stand strong for them to comeback to u, to spend every second with u is a wish. . . cheating is not a solution. . . if we can all see things the same, life will be much more easy, hurting each other would stop automatically. . .somethings are emotional abuse, and they develop into a bigger MARK in
    our hearts and we live with them forever carring them with us. . . our deepest hurts.

  51. How often do we have to get to d breaking point to realise what we should have been doing. I just learnt how to take care of my wife when I eventualy marry.

  52. marriage is the first heaven n the devil is out to destroy marriages please whenever u feel ur husband r wife annoys u remember the first time u guys met. for gold to be pure it went thru processes lets stop divorces..

  53. hw i wish d woman did nt die. very sad endin. u dat is cheatin on ur wife or husban, do u hear dat? y nt mend ur ways nw dat is nt 2 late.

  54. that was sad,she was supposed to tell him the truth about her condition.she lied to him too and that was the most hurtfull thing because he will never have the chance to correct his mistakes.very sad!!!

  55. This life na waaoo,why some men are like that,God will not allow me to bahave like that.

  56. I salute de writer.Whn we r tlkng abt motivation n speares of lyf we r refaring 2 dt. It wl mk us bttr husbnds in de future. We al jst hv 2 strt preparng nw! Ace up!

  57. How I wish if my boyfriend could ave d opportunity 2 read dis may be my pray would be answer 2ru dis story bcos my story is similar 2 dis d dif is dat I am still alive but he still believe he his doing d right thing. But all d same I am still in luv with him bcos I am not in luv with anyone since den almost a year.

  58. This is pathetic and sadden though a good lesson for both men and women, as well as those aristos ladies but above all we pray God should give us strength to keep and manage our marriage. May God bless who so ever that posted this bcos in one way or the other it would have positive effect in the life of some people. Nevertheless, what a tragedic end, how I wish the woman didn’t die.

  59. Dis is a gud story dat everybody in d world should read and after reading they will be encourage & they will no how to value woman dat they made a promise, pls let learn how to take care our wifes @ home.

  60. My relationship of 7years is falling apart, every hour we fight bt we luv each other very much. We stop complimenting each other of the gud things we do. This story is sad nd made me realise I need to be a gud women abt this make change. I love him 2 lose him???

  61. Gosh! Wot a sad story i felt pitied 4 d late wife anywe i ve once xperienced such pressure 4rm d kind of d man but i was able 2 conquer d hot may god 4give all men

  62. We live in a cruel world, were deceit, heartbreak rule de day, it is sooo sad that it ended this way, but thats wat he wanted

  63. How can she be battling with Cancer without her Husband Knowing?or should we Assume this story to be a Mare Imagination?

  64. Wat a tragic end 2 a love story! Any attempt 4 any “JANE” to come near my marriage, let d fire of d Holy Ghost consume IJN_Amen!

  65. Quite thoughtful and creative, i believe this piece will awaken the damping spirit of most spouses to appreciate beauty and value of their partners while they are still together. This will make me to be a better partner too.

  66. Dis a very touching story,i feel like crying now.I’ve really learnt a lesson 4rm dis piece and i hope u all feel dsame way too.

  67. Make God d foundation of our marriage. A husband must not just be d FIGUREhead of but the spiritual head of d family. It is then He can withstand d wiles of strange demonic women dt desire to devour his marriage. Women let us pray fervently for our marriage and together Keep The Marriage Vows Alive Daily!

  68. i think married pple shud take responsibilities as they vow on their wedding days.marry the one u luv nt becoz of situations.be ur spouse’s best frend for lyf.pay attention &appreciate one another.

  69. Yeeeees!!the very little things we do to each other that count.the story is a great teaching n touching lesson thanks for the story sooo sad.hmmmm involve God in your marriage.

  70. It pains for someone to realize is mistakes at the very last time very painful . We all make mistakes even greatest at times make small Mistake but the end justified the means

  71. So sad, we learnt 2 kip d 1 we luv so tit bcos dey won’t live twice. 2 b sincere d woman luv her husband so dearly but not luvd in return.

  72. Hmmmmn…………., tearz rolling down my cheeks , so touching n sympathetic! A woman wil do anytin cos of d luv she has 4 her children n she can live with n tolerate her husband even if she does’nt luv him anymore, she can endure ol sort of maltreatment. Hardly wil a woman seek 4 divorce. BUT a man can do worst than dat that if he falls 4 another lady. In dis lyf, u only learn 2 appreciate and value somebody wen u loose dem or when they r no more!! I wished he had met her b4 her death to say sori n tell her how special she was to him!!!

  73. it a hearttaking story.am touch by it and this goes to every out there who said that they are in love bt they do cheat.am so sorry for the son who didnt knw what is going and the wife who want to make her last day remebrable,oh! Wat a story

  74. It is very educative story,I leaned in the story that two wrong can not make a right,I like the way the woman handled the whole thing,the love she shared for her family.

  75. De only substance dat fuels love is intimacy. And de only substance dat can keep love is intimacy. Intimacy is avaiblity even wen nt needed. It is being der event wen u dnt wan 2 be der. Intimacy is being 2geda til death.

  76. So very sad & moving,that msg just instantly became an eye opener.I had ups & downs with da mother of my lil girl,I stood against all odds & opsticles,called myself into order.I lackd respect 4 her,yet she was patient 2wrds me,tolerated all da nonsense I threw in her face…..she is indeed a friend & a blessing 2 me.

  77. ​ was really touched by this story of a happily loved couple α̲̅πϑ ‎​Ơ̴̴̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴͡ what this stupid Jane had caused to their Ђα̲̅Ɣ‎​ home , infact ​ never once prayed for a broken home even for couples ​ never knew. How  dis earth are Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ sure ∂αt this lady (Jane) really L♥√s this man

  78. ​ was really touched with this story of a couple ∂αt suppose to be a lifetime relationship but can Ÿ̲̣̣̣̥ø̲̣̣̥u̶̲̥̅̊ imagine what a bloody idiot Jane had caused . God ​ never prayed once for a broken home even for couples ​ never knew thanks

  79. Also we should never toil or play with our love emotions and we should always learn to stand the taste of time for d one we truely loved

  80. Thx 4 da lovn masssage its keeps us 2 learn 2 b wit one partner and do tngs wch u usd 2 do wit yo gf o wife da first dsay u met each other

  81. Touchy, Inspired, Very sad, but it serves as a lesson to many homes. The woman was nt suppose to die @ dis point. Dis calls for sobber reflextns. Ef-em

  82. 10k God u realized wat u were lackn b4 she died,bt yet,her death s sooo painful.I luv ds,so touchn,it realy hurts bcos if u both ad bn intim8,a solutn myt av bn dne 2prevnt her 4rm death.Can’t start cryn.

  83. So painful n touch story. Mmmm gals dat ar afta marriage men b vry careful. cos sm1 told u he wat 2 diavoce his wife in orda to marry u n u ar so hapi dat u ve found a husband wat if he marry u n c anoda woman n diavoce u wil u b hapi ? So don’t do 2 other wat u don’t wat others 2 do 2 u

  84. I fill serious pain for the woman, and pity for the man. I pray that god will never. Let us see such girl in our life, am till single but I fill pain for the woman!!.

  85. Wat a sorrowful event and occurance. Being open in a relationshp is jst d bst spice 4 a healthy lasting relationship. God hlp us

  86. teary eyes hw i wish she did nt die suddenly.ööa God pls giv me a hrt tu luv my hubby n him tu luv me dearly n keep our intimacy forever wit d small things dat helps.

  87. Dats so sad, I wl nvr take my boyfrnd 4 grantd, dats a motivatin story. Shame 2 dat idiot husband hu ddnt notice hs wyf z changes evryday.

  88. This is just sad because at some stage we had people who said they loved us, at a long run you God bless you with children in that relationship, you are a good looking couple, leading a good life then Jane comes in and spoils everything. What are we going to do? What changes the love one had for somebody to hatred? Many a times the very Jane moves your partner away from for her own comfort, his material items and to destroy him, instead your ex partner will lead a stressful life. I thank God for some of us whom He moved away from painful relationships, gave His unconditional love and protected us from more hurting. Above all He gave us a successful, healthy and stress less life. I have learnt that love is genuine and cannot be changed unless it was lust form the very beginning.

  89. A very moving living reality, realy it takes two to tango, openeness, intimacy, respect, sensitivity and honesty are the five(5) pillars of the progressive relationship.This must be shared by many lovers in this Planet Earth.

  90. This is a greate lesson to everyone of us most especially men. It is very sympathetic,infact i was in tears seeing the way the woman died. The man hAd a change of heart buT it was too late. To me i really leart one or two things from this

  91. So sad it reminds me of my relationshp.l puttd so mch energy in it tat l ended up loosing so many frendz&each tym he hurt me l gt so depressd tat l end up hvng an eating disorder bt doubt if he ever realisd hw mch l lvd hm…

  92. Try to identify your weakness in a relationship and work on it. He change his mind because the became more intimate in the process.

  93. *teary eyes* I aint married bt dis s 1 0f de sad thngs dat 1 g0t 2 read…… Glad dat sum1 shared dis wit me…… I stl feel de wife ddnt hv 2 die, bt sum thngs r bey0nd 0ur c0ntr0l

  94. its really painful for a broken relationship, it aches, it kills, it destructive, it has no mercy and its disrespectful. Men learn the big lesson from this article !

    • This is not about men or women! What a negative thing to say. Yes men have been hurtful to women, but just as many women have been hurtful to men. It is a two way street in relationships. And no matter how much you have been hurt perhaps you were hurting him is some way as well. Every heart can be giving and loving, but not every heart can tolerate giving unconditionally in the face of constant pain. I pray that you learn to forgive and move on from this way of thinking and blaming men. Otherwise you will sabotage every attempt you make in having a fulfilling relationship in your life.

  95. Thats d most unexplainable queston in dis tin of ours called love, u see we will” never knw wat we have untill we lost. Life is all about risk ad this man has just played a game wit his wife ad lost her… This story should be called i kied my wife.

  96. It hurt me,why must she die nw dat d husband is willin 2 do anytin 2 make her happy.hmm tank God he finaly knw wot he has.

  97. I dnt knw why GOD luvs me so much 4 lettin me read dis.
    Do u knw dat my courtship is on d verge of collapse as at dis moment?Bcos I seem not to kia &appreciate her anymore. I am calin her rite away &promise to make up.Even if u’ve not seen any fruit of dis so far,dis is one.Pls knw dat God has used u to mend a home.
    Tanx 4 dis,may there be joy always in ur homes too.
    I promise to make dis story in a movie,as a movie producer.

  98. Me and my husband are going through a bad time now and i didnt care what was happening i told myself i will not make an effort to fix our relatioship it can go down the drain for all i care but with this story i need too change i havent been the for my husband as a wife should be so i will take the first step and see if my husband will join me in saving our relationship n if it does not work i would know i gave it my all.thank u for this story n i must stop feeling sorry 4 my self.

    • I respect ur decision. You have to do all you can to make your marriage work.its not all abt you &your spouse – there are withnesses around. Hope to hear from you.

  99. This is disturbing and sad.
    I have a close Freind who is ruining their marriage with their 11 year affair. I have been friends with this couple for 20+ years and this hits home.
    My heart goes out to the victim of this disloyalty.
    I can’t say anything even though I should.
    Very sad.
    Karma.
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  100. This is disturbing and sad.
    I have a close Freind who is ruining their marriage with their 11 year affair. I have been friends with this couple for 20+ years and this hits home.
    My heart goes out to the victim of this disloyalty.
    I can’t say anything even though I should.
    Very sad.
    Karma.
    ;(
    ;
    ;

  101. Hmmn. Its so painful. I hop evryman & woman learns frm dis.
    Luv, acept, apreci8 ur partna nw/2day, 2moro may b 2 l8. Dnt liv 2regret.

  102. Women has d power of intimacy cos it had once hapen 2 me. D story is a lesson 2 both male n female. Both partners suld learn 2 b intimate cos dats d language love understand 2 b strong.

  103. Dis story is touching,oh l can’t help d tear running down M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ face.Ooh M̶̲̥̅γ̲̣̣̥ God women A̶̲̥̅®ε̲̣̣̣̥: suffering.

  104. Wow, this actually made me realize the value of love and also showed me that the little things we tend to ignore everyday actually brings joy and happiness to us *really touched*

  105. Anyway,so pathetic,but the best is making JESUS the foundation of a relationship/family and gaining of agape love.

  106. Thnks a lot men. Ur story is painful espcl tht she died at th end bt m as a young guy. I hv learn a lot frm it. Frm nw on i wil keep on paying my relatiönship wth my girlfrnd a lot of attaitn. Thnks u jst changed my life…

  107. Sincerely this story is life touching. My love am sorry if i hut u pls forgive me and come back it willn’t happen again i promise.

  108. Its a vry touching and sad story, but we all hv to learn from it, thk God 4 d life of this noble & viruous woman. Men be careful, u are one of d greatest pains women hv in ds life,pls change 4 good,as the head of home make sure LOVE,PEACE,undastdn,intimacy reigns in ur home & stop chasing what is outside, They are not better than the one in the house

  109. Sooooo sad. Marriage is not a 100m dash but a marathon. It’s a long race that needs spicing up so that you don’t tire out as you go. The grass is not greener on the other side, men tend your own garden.

  110. Wow!! Da story is so touching, wsh evry body mor especialy da male folks wud see ds article.. I’ve learnt alot n i strngly hop d@ evry1 who cums acrs ithis also learn sumtn 4rm here.. Cheers…

  111. 9ice comment 4 dem dat do nt value der wife. An old frnd knws wen u re angry nd hapi. She knwz wat 2 do 2 mak u hapi wen u re angry nd wat u nid anytym both re 2geda. But new frnd z only sweet nd knw nufin abt u. Talk more of sumbodi spent ten yrs of her lyf callin it marriage.

  112. Wow this z sme story jus goes to show us the importance f appreciatin our other,takin time to not hear but listen to wat they r sayn.Intimacy z smethin tht got b wekd @ othrwyz it js disappears.js like tht

  113. 1st, 4 all dos women wo dnt knw dat lv is d basis 4 marriage, join urself wit 1 dat u find hapines n nt 1 wo has financial ability. Marriage s al abt lv n hapines. Dnt tink marryin 1 wit money wuld later improve lv. If ur reason 4 being 2geda s nt lv u’l regretably discova it n sinfuly desire an outin’ option. B wise, especialy d women!

  114. Too bad u lost every thing, u lost ur treasure out of ur carelessness. Do u no that ur d one dat killed her. How can u ever forgive ur self. U will never get any body like d treasure u lost just cos of ur infidelity. Too bad, how i wish dat u had a chance to repent.

  115. It’s so touchin.It is said dat u neva value wat u av till u loose it.Women nid all d luv dey can get 4rm their husbands aftrall,luv is essential 4 a home 2 b built on a solid foundatn n witout a woman in d home,dis will b difficult 2 achieve.

  116. really sad and so painfull indeed,she dint have 2die anyway GOD had a good reason for all this so that we can larn from it may her saul rest in internal peace

  117. I love dis article so much & I would like 2 share it wit pple around me so dat tins will never go bad in deir marriage.
    Thank You.

  118. I pray dat God give me grace to love n be faithful to de one I surely love. Thanks teacher Grace for dis ur such an inspiration n a true friend.God give u peace.

  119. Wow……. She couldn’t have had cancer if the bliss had continued from the first day…..Ladies its a warning for you, be sure he loves you no matter what and can take anything from you……. And guys please don’t manager her, if you can’t spend the rest of your life with her let her GO its not all relationship that turns into marriage…… Better still for both guys and lady…. If the bliss is dieing find a way to rekindle it. Tips; to the guy- you find a cute lady outside that you are attracted to maybe cos of what she’s wearing on how she talks, you can buy more of those cloths and with love create the other qualities in your wife…..
    To the ladies……you found a fine guy with some attribute your hobby don’t have do a draft of the things that attracted you to that other and start making changes one at a time with love believe me all men re handsome wit good care and peaceful+ blissful environment……… Spend time apart two weeks three weeks and when coming back together buy surprise gifts and share pictures of your times apart, frame some of the picture in the living room it and other sensitive part of the house….. More Later…. Need an advise call me on 08028365346

  120. Wow wow i just felt the story.it just made me think about her the one who gave me joy,love and happiness.i dnt know whether its too late or the still a chance,coz every morinng she’z the 1 who i think about.i hope people could open they’re eyes and heart for the ones who make ours feel like every thing is complete in our life.

  121. It is so painful and i wept bitterly when i was reading d story.every couple should be caring,kind,tolerant &best of friend

    • god must help us see this. it is so painful to try and imagine how i could have felt finding my wife dead before presenting the flowers and telling her that i had changed my mind and i needed her forgiveness.

  122. Really, I’m touched by the story. A lot of people are married or stay with their partners but they don’t know when last they were held or told that they were loved. God have mercy on such women for no women has to undergo through such pain. it’s so hurting knowing that you love your man but he doesn’t appreciate, adore, like or even feel like wanting you. Some men are so heartless!!!!

  123. What a touching story.a house divided against itself cannt stand.she gave her best at d dying minute what a virtures woman ful of undatstndn

  124. its a very sad story dat d wife died at d end but men shuld learn 4rm dis, cheating is very bad in a r/ship thus can cause alots of damages. Men dnt value wat dey ve until dey loose it, dis is a lesson 2 u all men who keep xtramarital affairs.

  125. Indeed Ican agree with this blog,life is atrugedy we have to solve it for this is not the for sorrows,divorce…whatever in relationships or in marriage.It’s we who can make agood image of our relationship/marriage.Cheating does not make sense for its aftermath is hurting and painful.

  126. well this is really touching if its true story but everything is always a story, always treasure you around you because both you and them will not be around someday. You might think ts them and it could be you, love is love so love while you can

  127. Really touching! This shud b lyk d umpteenth tym we are being reminded 2 b mindful of little details.Little drops of water mak d mighty ocean.A wrd they say is enough 4 d wise…bla bla..D story is obviously a tragedy.Wished it had a lil comedy e.g…and they livd hapily evr after.

  128. Mehn dis is a vry touchin, interesting, bliving n helpin story…we jst av 2 love our self n nt only dat, learnin d habit of itimacy…. Tnk u 4dis

  129. This is so painfuly ,if u luv some one just tried by all means to show him how much you love and you must understand each other well

  130. That’s a real strong woman, she didn’t have to fight using her claws but she understood that marriage life aint about giving up so easily. U fyt for what’s yours

  131. seriuos warning to all men. Bible said you should not by any means divioces your wife or husband. 2, dont give devil a room, flee from adultre. 3, the man in the story killed his wife and not cancer.his girl friend jane is a agent of satan, (watch and pray).

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  132. This so tourching MEN, Women and incredible moment .She saved her marrige,for being humble and patients :
    this is a clear lesson to you married and singles who r on their way of hunting for a partner.faithullness and treat your partiner the way you would like to be treatesd.

  133. What a story. Its so easy for two people to feel that their love has faded away after spending so much time together from sec to mins to hours to days to months and to years.
    As men if we can truely believe that the woman we marry is the best person we were meant to be with through out the days of our lives, then we can truely avoid being deceived by other women. Cherish your wife every morning of your life for marriages are made in heaven. Avoid also coming into contacts with Janes, judiths and Jills.

  134. This is so touching,I wish my man could read this too since he cheats a lot,even though we have a baby but he doesn’t stop instead it getn’ even worse….and I keep hoping that one day he’ll change,I can’t even let go of him.

  135. Wow if evry1 cn jst stay wit his or her lover n jst show each other y r they in a relationshp n most of al communicating is th key 2 a healthy relationshp so negative toughts wont work

  136. This is so touching.but it amazes me wen pple tink dt by indulging in xtramarital affairs dey solve thier marital problems.there is no other way outside d will(commands)of GOD to have a successful marriage.

  137. For sure that is a moving a heart-hurt story to read but people have to valued what they have no matter the circumstances they are facing for “you do not miss your water till the well run dry”

    So educative ,

  138. hmmm,what a feeling?this story is so hard to skip the eyes from reading again and again,what a touching lesson to learn? To every1 in a relationship i think we all need time for our love ones.

  139. indeed this story is a very pathetic one, we should learn to value the gold we have instead of picking stones outside,we should learn to value what we have not until we have lost it this goes to the male,learn to value and appreciate your woman.

  140. What a nice piece you have there. This is lovely. A way for our spinsters and wife to follow and win back their love ones when things are going bad in their relationship or marriage.

  141. That’s d problem with africans(both sexes)b4 d relationship, lots of affection, care,out on dates etc.Once they’re are married, d woman’s care is diverted to d children & 4 d man, his love 4 d wife reduces with d number of children. Tel me how d devil wil not visit them

  142. As am writing this comment my hands are shaking and my eyes filled with tears. So many people have forgotten what it means to make a vow. Not just in marriage but other institutions and sectors as well. God bless the writer.

  143. I cried bitterly when I read this story she did all she culd to make it work even sacrificing her life I mean men are just something else

  144. I have to do it because she told her parents about my makhwapheni & parents demanded the balance of lobola and unexpectedly I paid R1,5oo for the transport they hired to come to my place. I have to pay intlawulo (penalty) that we argued. She was a good women but now I don’t want to see or hear anything from her *angry*

  145. I can’t stop crying dis story touch my heart so seriuosly dats wat we are saying wen u see a man who is dieing bcos of u u will say he does not has move not handsum u see now my advice is dat bfor any relationship u want to go into pray very well to it and let trust and love be ur first God be with us all amen

  146. <> I lost love of my life 9 yrs Feb.14…4 mnth ago in motorcycle accd. Sum youngstr stole car wuz on hi-speed chase & hit my man 70 mph from back. To loose your better half is nothing you can ever imagine unless you have been there.
    (((In all relshnshp u have up & dwn, little arguments & your silly fights…the negative things that seem soooo important at the time. Once your loved one has passed that stuff don’t mean a thing. You barely remember it! The small simple things that you never payed to much attention too that become important How they would just looked at you, color of his favorite boots, shape of his hands, the smell of his hair or how he would tilted his head when he was talked to me! THESE are the things you will carry deep in your heart.The things you can’t & won’t ever forget…..THAT MADE THEM WHO THEY WHERE!
    This story touched me deep…………To me it seemed she loved her husband so much that she unselfishly gave him the ultimate gift. She knew she was dying & instead of being bitter she gave hims 2nd chance at love but most importantly after her death she left with PEACE OF MIND!

  147. this is rather very encouraging.but ensure u re ready 2live with whoeva u choose 2marry.dnt marry out of sentiment,cos ur feeling will eventually fade away.dnt money 4money cos d money cud finish somday.marry 4love, real love doesnt fade n it doesnt finish.

  148. at d initial stage, I didn’t want 2 continue reading d atticle, but along the line, somtin prompted me 2 go on, in all, I wil say may GOd 4giv d man, but 4 d young lady invoved, i tink she needs more than GOd’s 4givness 4 disruptin a peaceful marrage, if she can bring bak d man’s wife 4rm d dead maybe she wuld be 4given and i hope she gets a piece of her own cake in d future. cos those who kils by d sword dies by d sword.

  149. Every responsible person shouldn’t mess his matrimonial affair. I think best time 2 prove Your love is after marriage not only courtship period alone.

  150. Its so touchn. Pls, our broders, learn 2 luv even as christ luvs u b dt luvn husband dt ur wife ll always tlk about as being d bst. May god hlp us

  151. Nothing lasts forever but in marriage, u put a signature and swear to love your spouse FOR GOOD.If you feel like the love is reducing, do the best you can to revive it; have fun together, swim together,travel together….

  152. Eish jst dnt tat tis guy culd make hs married work thru a last he hd 4 hs collegue,dnt believe tat hu tel hs wife tat …wt hpnd 2 hs vowels hu tuk 4 hs wife damm !so 4 take tis emotionaly bt guys letz life mirriages serously n try 2 speak ur relationshp out

  153. see, i told ya….. Women are more powerful!
    see the way she brought her man back from the TRANCE. She has the methodology and knows the technical/emotionally know how. After God, women are next
    IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE, Go ask EVE. THATS HOW SHE DID IT ON ADAM.\

    Well, its a plus to knowledge as we should all learn from this little PIECE.

    Thanks Damsel

    • Ths story is touchng to an extent tht i so wish even those who wer planning for divorve my read it b4 adresing to their beloved

  154. Touching. God please heal our marriages, homes & lives. Give us peace oh Lord in our homes. Teach these young girls / ladies of these days to leave married men alone, & trust God for their own husbands.

  155. wow diz rily opened my eyes. I ddnt c diz i nearly dd da same bt 4 me itz nt marriage bt stl bt soon gng 2 be. Thnx 4 da wake up cal

  156. Whao a great lesson to learn and imbibe into our lives. Though friendship is made by choice and not by chance. Its our utmost responsibility to make the best out of all our ships through the Lordship’s (Christ) leading. An injured friend is the bitterest of foes

  157. God hates divorce with a passion that is why there was no alternative to divorce rather u for the wrongs and move ahead. It takes a lot to have a happy home.

  158. Wow to Value somebody you Love its very impotent. Ppl have this tendency of not respecting and Value their relationships that’s why ppl break up.

  159. God help us ladies and save us from hatred. Men please always love your wife ‘cos, the way you handle them determines the kind of home you have.

  160. This is serious story that touches my heart & i’m using dis opprtunity to surrender my love to my lovely wive.

  161. Yea, the grass appears greener from a distance. Jane never’d the love u thought u’d get. ’twas all lust! Love’s like ur pet, feed it always, a potflower, nurture’t , ur shirt, press it,a prayer, say it. Ay u never gave her reasons for the intended divorce. We live our lives for others “chdn” especially. At least u still’d an ear for her not to hurt ur son. She was brave but painfully lonely @ loveless last days to wat was supposed to be a”lifetime” relationship. One life-onelove.

  162. A good relationship does’nt just happen. Couples who stay together for years aren’t just lucky. It requires both couples to actively care, work on it. And share their love language. Do u know ur partner’s love language?

  163. THIS IS A VERY INSPIRING PIECE; VERY INTERESTING, YET TOUCHING. AS THE BIBLE SAYS, “MARRIAGE IS HONOURABLE AMONG ALL (Hebrews 13:4), AND SO CHRISTIANS MUST GO BACK TO GOD, THE INITIATOR AND PRESERVER OF MARRIAGE, WHENEVER SADDLED WITH ANY MARITAL PROBLEMS, BEFORE THE TENDENCY TO BE CONCLUSIVE WITHOUT COUNSEL (Rev. 1:8). Ignatius

  164. THIS IS A VERY INSPIRING PIECE; IT IS INTERESTING AND YET VERY TOUCHING… TRULY AS THE SCRIPTURE SAYS, “MARRIAGE IS HONOURABLE AMONG ALL…” (Hebrews 13:4). BELIEVERS MUST ALWAYS GO BACK TO GOD FIRST, WHO IS THE ORIGINATOR AND PRESERVER OF MARRIAGE, WHENEVER SADDLED WITH ANY MARITAL PROBLEMS BEFORE BECOMING CONCLUSIVE WITHOUT COUNSEL (Rev. 1:8). Ignatius

  165. Waoo,what a great lesson for anyman whom wish to be responsible.may d lord give us d heart that love without dissmulation

  166. couples ones married, stay committed in marriage, better the devil you know than the many angels out there you never know the real them, only to realize the gone wife was indeed an angel of a woman……. am sooo touched

  167. Jst try 2 appreciate n love wt u hv in life. Dnt take things 4 granted..by treating the one u love with respect wether she/he is around.

  168. Wow,nw i cnt stp tears in my eyez coz my relationship of 10yrs is slowly sinkin down,i gues we sometimes realise whn its late that people that we hv in our lives are more important whn they r gone

  169. Wow,nw i cnt sto tears in my eyez coz my relationship is slowly sinkin down,i gues we only realise that people that we hav in our lives are very important whn they r gone.

  170. Wow!!!,i was so touched and lost for words.Pls if this is real or not there is alot to learn here.Hello writter, you made me weep.May God help us to make a good decision.

  171. …i felt soo weak & sick while reading this lines.
    Its really a sad tale. But, full of thoughtful marriage tips or morals per say.
    Such situations or marrital cases are better imagined than experienced.
    Gosh!!
    I’m sick*
    God please do not allow such to happen to me or anyone around me…

  172. …i felt soo weak & sick while reading this lines.
    Its really a sad tale. But, full of thoughtful marrage tips or marals per say.
    Such situations or marrital cases are better imagined than experienced.
    Gosh!!
    I’m sick*
    God please do not allow such to happen to me or anyone around me…

  173. This is high time both men&women shd marry 4love sake&nt 4lust.We shd prepare 2live d rest of our lives with our spouses til death do us part.this is a touchng story,i just pity d woman.

  174. This is an interesting story, it really moves me. Divorce is not something we can just put ourself into bcs it ruin a relationship.

  175. As sad as it is as i realise the story is of Dec.i cannot help it but this is the same thing am going through though myself am not sick its awfully painful.

  176. first and foremost i would like to appreciate you for the write up.it really touches me.it’s too bad for a man to divorce his wife because of another woman.I always say true love is beautiful and sweet to them that understand it.It a lesson to everybody.

  177. Dis is indeed a big lesson 2 be memorized always, 4 men who believe dat d best way of becoming a happy man is 2 divorce thier wife’s whenever dey had dispute. Divorce shouldn’t be d best alternative but wit patient and prayer.

  178. Heart rending & saddening but also enlightening, full of wise teaching & powerful. God help us indeed, to love & to appreciate our partners till death do us apart.

  179. ƨ̣̣̣̇̇̇̇ợ̣̣̇̇̇ pathetic…..lovely write up α̲̅ή∂ thanks Ƒό̲̣̣̣̥r̶̲̥̅̊ ‎​D̶̲̥̅̊ lesson

  180. Thisis sooooo painful people let’s stick to our vows until death do us apart not jane or mary whow jane stay away from my marriage plz shuld I catch u uzofa

  181. This is a message 4 husband nd wife.Hmm…………so interesting nd sadened, it is good 2 love each other husband nd wife. May God help us o

  182. What a heart-broken tragedy!
    This is a very big lesson for all.
    As a man if you think your wife is lacking in anyway, teach her & carry her along; DIVORCE is not the solution. Even GOD hates it.
    The women should always be pro-active. They should not wait until things get out of hand. Please always take precautions. GOD help us, Aamin.

  183. Its a sad story. Whn u enter marriage u commit urself n ur finished wit ho jola. Marriag is tough but communication helps. Talk to 1 another if da is someth u don’t understand. Don’t bottl insid

  184. Until husband&wife accept that both of them cannot fully or totally satisfy each other’s needs hence their dependence on God.furthermore,each one of them cannot fully accomplish or satisfy the heart of God without the help of each other.so divorce is nt the solution.i luv d write up d more u read the greater ur progress or succes in Life.

  185. I hope d man will b able to forgive himself bcos d woman has secured her heaven by forgiven him and given him room for repentance. May d good God lead us right and help our faith to obey d most significant and precious law “LOVE UR NEIGHBOUR AS URSELF”. It is well.

  186. This is such a sorrow filled story! To be sincere a handful of women suffer a lot in their matrimonial home but yet remain silient,when the man D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ ave knwn all their lives,who promised dem love till infinity suddenly gets carried away by mere distractions.I don’t wish dis kind to any more person but I hope D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ learn from this story!

  187. what a great lesson here for families!where love is lost ,so many things is bound to happened. Lord help me to find true love and able to deliever true love to everyone around me.amen

  188. what a great lesson here for family!where love is lost ,so many things is bound to happened. Lord help me to find true love and able to deliever true love to everyone around me.amen

  189. Let us do more of friendship than the love thing – love itself dies at a point in time, but if one is ur friend before being a wife or husband, whenever this love thing disappears, friendship keeps u together. Friendship is what keep us together not love, for love dies at a point in our living – only friendship keeps us together. Love ur friend and get married to only ur friend not just someone u love and not realy ur friend.

  190. I blv dat lv s build on trust, honesty,becumin fwndz wth ur spouses n spendin tym wth thm,telng each otha hw u fil frequently,dat way ul neva doubt dat u lv ur spouse

  191. Very nice councelling and food for thought. One can continually pray for understanding what a family is. One can be destroyed within a seconce by your spouse and also be saved. That wife saved the image of the husband in the very eye of the couple which is otherwise in another family,even when the wife is not having any ailment she still destroy the harmonious relationship in a family. But intimacy,endurance,self dicipline,be alife wt smile and put what you can chew in your mouth.

  192. I almost shed tears as a man by d time i got to the end of d write up, so touching. I think i have learn a lot frm it that i will use in my marriage.

  193. Sometimes the pain become too much that we dont feel like we can control, it has made me learn about loving and giving your heart to someone special

  194. Nice, touchn and lesson filld story, i reli lovd it, bt com 2 tink of it, would d lady hav actd dis calmly and intelligent if she wasnt dying? Hmmmmm.

  195. A moving story, but the key word is cheating, what of HIV and kids?. i think gift of one another is a special gift from God. at any given tym we/anyone should not even think of cheating esp the married guys. If one can define love. then mamboo kamili.

  196. In every relationship its not fifty -fifty but because the destiny of our eyes we must cooperate to our best in our relationships.

  197. without christ in life,relationship and marriage the opposite is crisis, when ur control by ur flesh or appitide you lost ur senses and conscience only to regret ur action thereafter. My advace, we should live by the dicted of the word of God & the Holy Spirit. There’s no satisfaction in the things of this world, but with God there’s satisfaction. The story is so pathetic, let us all laern from this man.

  198. It a must read 4 evry1.time has alot 2 do in relationship.dere is a sayin dat out of site is out of mind.and i also luv d woman’s reaction 2wards d divorce.

  199. Oh!my God! Its so touchin.wat a wndrful story,i almost cried. Hw i wish my God culd open d eyes of all men 4 dem 2 luv der wife,spouse,gurlfrn nd value dem.as 4me wen i get married.i ll luv my missin rib till our dyin days.GOD HELP ME

  200. Hmmmm!!! This is a real food for thought! An insight and a great lesson. God bless the writer and all those who shared it. Let’s provoke one another unto love and good works.

  201. I just really wish i could the time back 7yrs……………………..but i know God will make all things beautiful at His time.

  202. Hmmn wot a sad STORY: if onli d man waz a little sensitive he wuld av known da his wife waz dyin_hw painful:: we don no wot we av until its gone..wake up evry1

  203. but u’re a wicked soul,after ten years of marriage u now desided to divorce,to cut it short u’re a murderer,just ask 4 God mercy

  204. the last paragraph is an undisputable truth.howeva if u dont luv some1 u’ve stayed with for sum yrs animore u cant do anitin abt it cos if u try persisting n staying the tots will hunt u.u need a peace of mind 2 work n do other equally important things.is relationship d determinant of one’s destiny,of course no!

  205. Hmmm….. U dn’t value wat u av until u loose… Plz… Letz learn 2 b contentd wif wat we av…… Hard luck bro….

  206. I have long learned to live my life guided by certain principles. You do not need to wait and see certain things happen to you in life before you make a decision about what to do.I handle possible breaks and creeping resentments into my marital relationships by invoking an appropriate guiding principle,to give me a better insight,to rule my days in loving continuity.

  207. As a pre-marital instructor, I say, this is really a catalogue of inpiring tools for a successful marriage. Both pre-marital candidates and already married couples MUST endeavour to READ this story and meditate upon.

  208. Thank you very much, my heart is heavy. Husband Love ur Wife as Christ Love the Church. Dont alway thing that you have a upper hand simply because you are the Man.

  209. Deen,i ve learn a lot of lessions about ur story,n am sure u ve already won the hearts of many ladie in ur life.had it not because u are my brother,i would have marry u.In fact am really touched brother.

  210. Wow! This needs to be read by both partners. A touching story indeed, though in real life the small details of the partners’ lives leaves much to be desired..

  211. The greatest TRAGEDY in LIFE is to wake up one day and realize that the MOST PRECIOUS thing that has been existing with YOU is dead. LORD help me to realize that PRECIOUS THING that You gave me and give me GRACE to keep IT because it a TRUST.

  212. stop stressing yourself.No matter how long it takes, you will make it,because”a persoo who stammers would eventully say i love you

  213. I juz wish cheatin spouses wud stop hurtin their better halfs lyk tat! How beautiful n peaceful, homes can reign when theis total love, trust n commitment frm both partners!…juz how God intended homes2b!! Hubbies, pls love ua wives n stop dogging on them; wives, pls submit 2ua hubbies, coz they’r ta heads in ua homes, tis God who said so!

  214. Divorce is not a solution to marital problems.We have to value what we have nd remember what we had things changes bt life moves on.Let us try to devote our time,love and care to our relationships nd to those that matterz alot in our life.

  215. It is so touching,lovely and real. I felt like crying while reading the story. It helped me discover that love is not about looks and what the other person can do for you,but it has to come deep from the heart for that special someome. It is very courageous.

  216. This post is educative n powerful attention, committment, love is so necessary in a relationship and marriage it should be done on time not when things are almost crumble.

  217. WAT A STORY,WE NEED TO HONOUR THEM PROMISES ONCE WE MAKE THEM VILES.REGARDLESS HW BIZZ OR SATISFIELD WE BECOME!ITS PRUDENT ENOUGH TO REFLECT BACK AND ALIGN OURSELVES TO THAT WE TREASSURED ON OUR WAY TO VICTORY AND SUCCESS!

  218. I couldn’t hold back the tears in my eyes when l finished reading this! Oh! God plz help me l want 2 have everlasting marriage r/ship with Love AMEN

  219. a creative art,award winning piece ,too close to reality for it not to be viewed as a possibility,passing the road is always on the rough edge,we learn everyday.oneness is the baseline for any common front.

  220. I must comend d writer of this touching story. It made me think of how beautiful marriage would have been if only spouses pay attention 2 little details.

  221. The story is interesting and as we all know that the patience dog eat the fattest bone, that is exactly what l lean 4rm d story and it tells us how we can build our home without allowing third party. Well done.

  222. The story is interesting and as we all know that the patience dog eat the fattest bone, that is exactly what l lean 4rm d story.

  223. Atyms,d tins we c as vry litle ar tins dt rili count anyway. . .evri single second ofers an oportunity 2mak sme1 u luv hapi n ofcours ur own self dnt waste it cos u myt neva get it bak. . .its a mind blowin publicatn

  224. Let’s wake up nd be greatful tht we hv poeple we love nd neva try to break their heart.let’s make them feel loved.please ladies and gents.

  225. I really luv dis.D wife acted maturely nd kip a gud relatnship btw d father nd d son.Its so painful abt d wife death.Tnks 4 sharin dis.Realy learn frm it

  226. This is a very interesting story that one need as guide to relationship. There is a risk involved in everything most especially ‘TRUE RELATIONSHIP’, everytime you share a smile, everytime you shed a tear, you are open yourself up to hurt, but we should always remember that conscience is an open wound and only truth can heel it.

  227. I just wish wif dis write up, alot of women/men who are up to allowing young gals and other women come into their homes to break the Love, Happyness, Joy, and success of their marriage, would wake up and devote to their wife tym and afection as promisd on d Alter b4 its too late, it would save a family from going to hell, incase ppu dont knw d esence of marriage, let me remind u dat He dat created them in d beginnin said ‘Adam cant make it alone, that he needs a helper’ even tho smth hapnd, it stil stands that two ppu come together so they can help make Heaven. If a wife or husband fail in their place of duty, they’l dfinately giv acc on d last day.

  228. Life is about making decisions…good or bad. Bad decisions bring bad consequences, and good decisions bring good consequences. To love is a decision we also make- not a feeling or an emotion for which we have no control over- as most people say. The greatest show of Love is God- let’s make the good decision to bring God -and love- into our lives.

  229. This story is touching, it will change a lot of people, this is the best story that l have eve read, if this story is made into a movie, that movie would be a hit, please make a movie based on this story, wen l read this story l burst into tears, l shared it on facebook.

  230. That was really pathetic. I’m touched by it. Please we should learn to be contented with the partner that God gave us. We cause serious havoc by going to look for another. That’s very bad…

  231. I think I’ll carry this into my married life. The small things count, divorce is not always the solution. Perspective.

  232. Babygirl,tanx 4ur words & may dlord give u more wisdo- m,knowledge & un derstanding in ur d oing & ways.thank u very much&I real ly,really,appreciat-e From 2day onwa rd u ar mine bcos u hv stolen my hear t with ur heart.I hv loved u.

  233. It takes the couple to take interest in one another’s lifeto make a sustainable marriage, selfish individuals in the marriage union cause havacs and death.

  234. this is really an inspiration………atleast i’ve learned that whn a person is in a relationship, intimacy is really needed. Wow it is so sad and it is a lesson to us whos gonna get married in future tense. Very touching

  235. this is really an inspiration………atleast i’ve learned that whn a person is in a relationship, intimacy is really needed. Wow it is so sad and it is a lesson to us whos gonna get married in future tense

  236. What an interesting story bt painful.it really teach us hw to build our home. divoce is nt smt gud in a relationship,either married or still dating.i luv dis story,

  237. All My God this is really touching, Men do not decide easily the first cut is the deepest even if thez Jane, wat God hz appointed 2be yoz nor Man shall get it frm u.

  238. Love should multiply not divide. Wife love ur spouse, dont nag and complain less. Husbands pls love and respect ur wife. With faithfulness, fidelity and kindness love will multiply.

  239. The story is mind blowing it is good to relate so well in a relationship.you need to need to know what the other party is going through.

  240. Husbnds b faithful 2 ur God givng wives, women b diplomatic in ur aproach 2 situatn if dey arises, & for d singles trust God 4 ur hom, instead of destroyng others joy. D Lord wil help us. Amen